gular, so unique. Who will listen to understand that uniqueness?"
習(xí)慣六:.Synergize
什么叫做Team? Work together to achieve a common goal. 一個團(tuán)隊可不是那么容易形成的。過程大概是這樣:FORM --> STORM --> NORM --> PERFORM
可見,團(tuán)隊最開始會有波動,然后才會達(dá)成共識,最后才能發(fā)揮效用,發(fā)揮一加一大于二的功效。
什么會成為團(tuán)隊形成的障礙呢?These obstacles are:
bias, arrogant, no responding, wrong perception, different paradigm, conflict of interest, etc.
Getting to Synergy:
You have your way, I have my way, there's always a better way.
We CHECK willingness
Reflect viewpoints and Create new ideas
then comes to the THIRD alternatives
案例用了兩個:
1. Geese flying。 大雁飛行,結(jié)對人字形比單個的飛,效率上有71%的提升。還有其他很多points。
2. 3D的拼圖游戲??凑l最快,看誰最有團(tuán)隊精神。
習(xí)慣七: Sharpen your saw
這個習(xí)慣是最外圍的習(xí)慣,其實也就是一個不斷自我更新自我提升的習(xí)慣,英文是renewal,或者recharge也行。要達(dá)到Work和Life的平衡就是在這個習(xí)慣上。從四個方面進(jìn)行:Body,Heart,Mind,Soul。
這點比較有意思。起碼對于我而言,我分不清楚后面四個單詞的真正區(qū)別在哪里。這里給出書中的定義。
Body: You build physical wellness through proper nutrition, exercise, rest, and stress management.
Heart: You become stronger socially and emotionally by making consistent deposits into others' Emotional Bank Accounts.
Mind: You increase mental capacity by reading, writing, thinking, and discussing your ideas.
Soul: You develop spirituality by reading inspirational literature, mediating, performing service, and spending time in nature.
看到了吧,Body是身體了,Heart主要是指社交,Mind是自我的內(nèi)在素養(yǎng),Soul指的是精神層面的。我覺得Mind和Soul的區(qū)別是,Mind是精神世界的物質(zhì)文明,Soul是精神世界的精神文明。